Kari Bender
By Allie
Grade 5
Rolling Hills Public Charter School - Boise, ID.
Kari Bender was once like everyone else she picked her kids up from school went to the movies ate pizza and ice cream while watching “Law and Order” just like everyone else. More important Kari Bender was once a part of my family.
Kari, her husband Rob, their son Lucky, and their daughter Haley all lived in a three bedroom apartment in the towers on the eighth floor with us below on the seventh.
Earlier on that year we met at one of my soccer games, Haley slipped and fell into a mud puddle and my mom helped her up. Lucky was a defender on my team so we were fast friends.
Kari was a very healthy person so we were all really surprised when she was diagnosed with cancer and even more surprised when she and her family had to move back to Virginia to get the treatment she needed.
We waited two years for the cancer to leave and once it did my mom and I got the first flight out of Japan to go to Virginia and visit them. After our six hour plain ride we scurried the air port looking for Kari or Rob but they weren’t there so we hopped in a cab and went to their parents house.
After two weeks we had to leave but we weren’t gone for long. After we left Kari had a huge attack. While she was sleeping a bacteria snuck up on her and acted like an acid and ate almost all the skin off the left side of her rib cage and wound up in the hospital again so we were at her side once again.
I can remember her looking up at me with those big brown eyes filled with tears and dark purple circles underneath. Silence trampled the room until Haley filled with sorrow walked up to her mom’s bed and asked “Why you?” Kari, weak as a bug looked up and said “Why not me?” Haley looked down and slowly began to walk back to her seat.
The next morning we walked in those halls, sat in those chairs, and ate that food for the last time because Kari Bender had recovered and was ready to become Kari Bender again. I now know in my heart that she is and always will be fine.
In this period of time I learned that if the opportunity you shouldn’t ask why me you should ask why not me because if you think about it there is a short line between why and why not and if it wasn’t you it would be someone else so just forget about it take life by the hand and never let go!!